The Early Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship
Are you aware that as many as one in four women and one in nine men in America could become victims of domestic abuse?
Even though domestic abuse is common, many good-natured people have a hard time identifying a toxic relationship. Since most of us want to see the good in everyone, it can take a long time for someone to understand that they’re not safe.
Have you ever wondered, “What are the warning signs of an abusive relationship?” Read on so you can understand the top signs of an abusive relationship and when it’s time to seek help.
They Discourage You From Spending Time With Others
One of the most common early signs of an abusive relationship is isolation. This could present itself as your partner talking badly about your loved ones or guilt-tripping you when you spend time with them alone.
An abusive person’s ultimate goal is to make their partner feel like they’re alone. This works by making their partner feel like they can’t escape and their loved ones will be unable to see when something seems wrong with the relationship.
Your Partner Has Anger Issues
Domestic violence often starts small because your partner wants to see how far they can go with you. They may act like an angry drunk, then start picking fights with you, and eventually cause physical harm.
Domestic abuse can cause all kinds of mental health issues that haunt people long after they escape that relationship. You should learn more about trauma and healing.
They Refuse to Take Accountability
If you and your partner are open about discussing your history, then you may notice that they’ll paint any previous unhealthy relationships as having a “crazy” ex.
Keep an eye out for how they handle issues in your relationship. If they always try to blame you, then you’re not with a good partner.
Your Partner Says Things to Lower Your Self-Esteem
An ideal partner will speak and behave in ways that make you feel secure with your relationship and yourself.
Have you noticed that you’ve started liking yourself less or you’re facing more insecurities after dating your current partner? They may be breaking down your confidence so you’ll feel like there’s nobody else who could ever love you.
They Disrespect Your Boundaries
Everyone is entitled to their own boundaries to look after their health and happiness. Respectful partners will accept those boundaries and never do anything to make you feel unsafe or used.
If you’ve clearly communicated boundaries and you’ve witnessed your partner disregard them, then you should leave right away.
These Are the Signs of an Abusive Relationship
Everyone should learn about the signs of an abusive relationship so they can leave before things escalate. After reading this guide, you’ll be much more prepared to identify red flags in your relationships and even your loved ones’ relationships.
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